We learn about the world as we get feedback from things within it such as from family, friends, mentors and even books. Feedback can tell you where you went wrong and affirm what you do right. It can thus help you predict the future. Interestingly there are people I have met who question the importance of feedback. They say: “I can figure out everything I need to on my own. I don’t need feedback like others do.” This is not true. In fact there is a big danger lurking in this notion. If the world you are creating is your own you might get stuck in it or some part of it and not know what to do next. If however, this world of yours and all parts of it are based on some feedback you will always know who to ask if you get stuck. Somebody once said that "fundamentally we are here not to be seen, but to see" i.e. to see things outside of ourself. You will notice that all growth you have had has owed itself to some consistent feedback. Suppose you wrote an essay. You wouldn't re...
There is a phrase which clearly describes your intentions:
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I am thinking of the Four Agreements yet parallels are in all the wise ones...
Thanx for the reminder...I will carry these wise words with me while with family in a close way for quite a few more days...
Faraz, Connie is so precise when she describes your intensions by the phrase 'do your very best'
ReplyDeleteHave always admired your intentions and always see great consistency in them.
Thankyou very much Aunt Connie and Akhtar sahab. That's great - and very useful feedback.
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